Sunday, November 21, 2010

Nikki....

I was chatting with two of my friends on-line. One was my brother in law's friend, and other was Priya. While chatting with Priya, we came across a talk about maintaining contacts with friends. She was saying that a few of them promise to stay in contact with each other, but all vanish like 'a fart in a wind' (courtesy :"Shawshank Redemption". So apt phrase. Soon a window popped up "Chat from NIKKI"...Nick named as priv@te...

priv@te:  hi, wassup
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When i met him for the first time, he was sitting on a bench next to the MCO in Bhopal railway station, with his head held low, and silent. He came all the way from Noida, for attending SSB. Even though he seems to be a bit reserved at the first sight, the following days in 33 SSB really showed to me how smart and dynamic was that chap. Thats why people say not to judge any one.

What i really loved in him was his behavior, his innocence, and he too had the habit of writing diary, just like me.  The five days of SSB were more than enough to build a strong bond between us. Unfortunately, he didn't get recommended. He used to say to me that he would be the first person in his village to become an officer, if he gets recommended. While he bid me good bye, i was weeping in my heart. Later,  He joined a private firm. and soon after joining his firm, he changed his status in gmail and orkut account to "private job sucks"...
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priv@te:  hi, wassup
me:          haaaai...fine yaar...thu kaise ho?
priv@te:  m also f9....hows ur swimng coching going????/
me:         gr8!!...badiyaa hein..bohuth zyaada paani piya pool se
priv@te:  wn u vl go 4 ur trang?
me:          January...kal yaa parsom ko Merit list aayega...Chathurvedi ko yaad     hein thumhe?...usne phone kiya tha aaj.....
priv@te:  okkk...chaturvedi ji kaise h.......
me:          theek ho...Waiting for CDSE 2's result...
priv@te:  yar dis tym i ve also filled d form 4 CDSE 2011
me:         great, man...leking Navy keliye age over heena?
priv@te:  even m doing a pvt job but still ........                                                                  m confused abt my career towards defence.....
me:         kyom?... Gaamv ke pehele officer banne ka sapna chod diya kya?
priv@te:   nopp yar ...i cant.......i wann join d armd force ...
               dats why m not concentrating on my job
priv@te: still dis dream is creating .chemical lochha in my mind every tym.....
                wt shuld i do yaar.........
me:         hihi... but i would say concentrate in your present job. When a monkey jumps from one branch to another, it hold one hand very firmly, before grabbing the next  branch. Else he will fall down, and we don't know what is below. Very similarly, you have now grabbed on your private job. Grab it firm, and look forward to join defense... after grabbing defense, private job ko chod do..afterall, it sucks na?... ;)

priv@te:  u r realyy a very very very gr8 person   yar
me:          hihi...
priv@te: :D .........really thank for the GOD to gv me such a good person
me:          i thank him for the same... to have a really good friend like you...
priv@te:  ha ha ha ha
               yar i want to meet u
me:         me too...Shayad December meem Delhi aaunga meem...thab there gaavm mem muche zaroor leke jaana..
priv@te:  defenitly....it vl be .....my pleasure....
me:         :D
priv@te:  m feeling very free now by talking u.........thanks yaar
me:         my pleasure yaar... i just want to see your smiling face... ur smile is very cute... :)
priv@te:  thanks... hope v vl meet soon.......m waiting for  u.....
              good night....shubh ratri
me:       yup...will see definitely...
          Shubh rathri.:)


I wish i should have shown this chat to her. But i wanted to show this to the entire world, that friendship is a special gift. May be you wouldn't have felt so, but defenitely, Nikki did...

2 comments:

  1. of course u can judge a person...only tht u shldnt do it in a haste..wait till u kno them better...

    and..btw...he chats wid u in english..and u in hindi?? hehe..

    nice example of the jumping monkey...experience speaks, huh?? lol

    looks like u made a good frnd in nikki...gr8..keep up tht amiable character of urs, dude..

    best wishes 2 ur buddy too...

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  2. lol...u have a keen observation - Nikki speaking English, and me replying in Hindi....don't know why, but it makes me feel at home...

    and as you said, we should not be in a haste to judge a person, and there is nothing wrong in judging, but i still don't want to judge..

    and friendship with nikki, yup. i can't forget him.. not nikki alone, all friends who found a space in my heart...that includes u 2, dear arsehole...lol...

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